Confusion to the nth degree

You know how sometimes you feel like you can not possibly get anymore confused? Well I reached that point the other day. And just when I was certain that I had reached that point, life got even more confusing. Two guys who have told me that they love me in 30 minutes. Talk about overwhelming. Did I mention that they are both my ex-s? I deffinately don't have that kind of feelings for the first one, but the second is more complicated. He's my first love and I honestly still love him. I just don't want to get stuck running around in endless circles which is what I'm scared to death is what is happening. We have already went out 4 times. When is enough enough? When do we finally say that we don't need to give it another shot? And what if we really are meant to be together? Man, life is so dadgum confusing sometimes!